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Tags: self improvement, attraction, body language signs of attraction
 You may not be aware of it, but you may be ignoring (though unintentionally) some signs of attraction that an admirer might be sending you.
There are some people who are simply observant and they easily pick on some of the signs of attraction others are giving them. But then again, there are also some who are not even aware that someone's developed some feelings for them.
The thing to understand about these body language signs of attraction is that--they are oh-so undefined, and at times, unnoticeable that's why they're
often left unnoticed. Most especially for those who refuse to notice; and why is that--well, maybe we tend to play safe and choose to ignore those subtle hints for fear that we may misinterpret those "meaningless" signs that perhaps, the person was just being friendly, and then you just only some meaning on it? Then, we suffer an awkward embarrassment soon after.
For who can blame us in thinking, what if you entertain thoughts of flirting with them, only to realize that they've no more-than-friends-feelings for you? Oooh, talk about sticky situation.
Therefore, whether male or female, here are the top 3 unmistakable signs of attraction you shouldn't miss!
1) A genuine smile--may I say, is difficult to fake.
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You'll simply know--and feel it too; whenever you're around and you make them smile, this may be an indication that they're attracted to you. But learn to differentiate a real smile from a phony one. Perhaps he/she's just smiling to play along with your joke...and not really find it funny--as not to embarrass you.
2) They get closer. Oh yeah, you just notice it--they just can't help it that they're like magnets just...drawn to you. Perhaps it's your magnetic personality. Oh well, whatever the attraction, whatever the allure, despite your personal space, admirers just can't help sharing their space with you and they mutually expect you to feel the same.
3) Eye contact.
It's common to stare at others. What counts as a hint if their stare lingers more than let's say, 4 seconds. Observe well if they look intently (but not too intently) at your soulful eyes while you're talking; it means they're really interested.
About the author
The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been
successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Let Amy help you Discover The Beautiful You. Grab a copy of her eBook Skin To Soul Beauty.
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