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Tags: self improvement, attraction, rules of attraction
 These rules of attraction are not exclusively applied for women only but also for guys as well. It does not matter if it is a feminine woman and a masculine man, or an effeminate man and a boyish woman or whatever combinations or recipes you may encounter, these rules of attraction may apply.
That’s why these rules of attraction are universal because as long as there is division in a relationship, a feminine and masculine entity, these rules of attraction apply. It may work for men who want women, women who want men, men who also want men and women who also want women.
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There are 3 universal rules of attraction: Rule of attraction #1—anything that we could reach for effortlessly are not desirably attractive in our eyes. Attractive men are not attracted to anybody who is automatically attracted to them! Hmmm, sounds topsy-turvy now? For instance, if you reach for your delicious favorite chocolate bar always for free without working for it nor even asking for it, eventually it gets boring.
So, what’s that got to do with our rules of attraction? Okay, for a moment visualize (whether you’re a female or not) that you, yes you are the most gorgeous, hottest, most desirable female on the planet that men simply cannot resist. So each day, you do your usual routine.
Wake up in the morning, gets ready for work, and walks to the bus stop. Getting on the bus, a poor old guy sitting across you is staring at you like he’s never seen a woman before in his entire life. Along the way, an indecent looking guy is eyeing you, sizing you up and checks on your God-given assets.
And you can tell without even looking! He is almost drooling now. Yikes!When you reach the office, you open your computer and you received an email from your boss (male) asking your to join him on a business trip to Ibiza; even though you already told him for the nth time that you’re already taken (even if it’s not true, you have to make this up) and it was not part of your job description to tag along with him out of town for “business trips.” Now, imagine receiving all these unnecessary and rude attention (and advances) practically almost each day.
See how tiring and annoying it is? To that ultra-hot and stunning YOU; all those males are just trying to entice you, looking for an easy lay. The first time you get your hands for free on those delicious chocolate bars, you’d be happy, ecstatic even. Yet after years of freebies without working for it, you’d even forget to look at it.
In short, you’re attracted to things that are not easy to get. Same thing with the rules of attraction. When you meet someone who doesn’t approach you or talk to you, you’ll be challenged to discover that he’s strange. Strange in the sense that he’s not even trying to attract your attention at all.
He is actually challenging you to let you feel that he is not easy to get.
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The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been
successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Let Amy help you Discover The Beautiful You. Grab a copy of her eBook Skin To Soul Beauty.
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