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How To Be Charismatic
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I was walking in a park the other
day and happen to notice a group
of individuals together in one of
the gazebos there.
They were a loud group to say
the least but what caught my
eye was a young woman in
her early twenties.
She wasn't really beautiful nor
stunning - someone who you
would think wouldn't stand
out in the crowd.
The thing was, she did stand
out.
When she spoke everyone in
the group looked at her and
listened.
She had her audience captivated.
And the reason was simple -
she had charisma.
So what does it mean to be
charismatic?
Simply put, if you have charisma
you're seen as a leader with a
message to deliver.
You're someone who makes others
around him feel special.
You make others feel that they
really matter.
Basically, you're a person who
bonds easily and impresses
people to become the center
of their attention wherever
you go.
The good thing is, charisma is
not genetic or something that
you are born with - it's something
that you learn.
What this means is you can be
charismatic - you just need to
learn the skill of fine tuning how
you interact with others and
your own self-confidence.
Oh and you need to practice
it too.
So what do you do to start the
transformation.
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Get your mind into it
You need to exude confidence.
Your confidence translates to
your charisma.
You have to believe in yourself
and learn to love yourself.
Charisma has to come from
your own genuine thoughts
about yourself.
If you don't believe in yourself
it will show and others will
know it.
Get in touch with your emotions
while you're at it.
Being charismatic means feeling
emotions strongly, and better
relating to what others are
feeling.
So feel free to express anger,
pain, sadness, or elation, and
don't be afraid to share your
emotions with others.
As long as these emotions are
what you truly feel then others
will accept that.
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Do unto others what you
want others to do unto you
The golden rule. And this applies
in your practice to develop
your charisma.
Treat everyone as equals. Let
every person you meet feel as
if they are the most important
person that you'll ever meet.
They will remember that.
Make them feel special. It's
really not that hard.
Remembering people's names,
and addressing them by their
names is one way to make
them feel special.
It shows that you really care
about knowing them.
Always smile genuinely when
you greet someone.
Compliment them freely, but
genuinely, and accept
compliments as graciously
as they were given.
And when others are talking give
them your undivided attention.
Listen actively to what they are
saying. Assure them that you
are listening and you're interested
in what they have to say.
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Think before you act
Before you do anything or say
anything, think about it first.
Feel the atmosphere of the group
before you jump right in.
You don't want to do or say
anything that would be out
of place.
If you have nothing important to
say then don't say anything
at all.
And when you do get a chance
to talk, speak with conviction.
Speak clearly and at a relaxed
pace. Vary your tone, rhythm,
volume, and pitch to emphasize
parts of your speech.
At the same time, look out for
your gestures. Make sure your
body language backs up what
your saying.
You may sound excited but if
your body doesn't convey that
it doesn't mean anything and
the people around you will
see that.
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It takes practice to bring out
your full charismatic potential.
For some it's easy, for others
it takes some time.
But, like I said earlier, the good
thing is you can learn it.
It's a matter of being confident
with yourself and how you act
and speak.
It's being assertive when needed
while being interested and
open.
An important aspect is being
"real."
And it can help you fight your
own self-worth problems.
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It all comes down to who you are.
Until next time,
Amy Twain
P.S. Visit my blog at: http://www.innerzine.com, for more self-improvement information, strategies, and tips.
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