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Know What They Are Really Saying
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You've seen it in those criminal drama TV
series: a person is brought in for questioning
and the FBI has a body language expert on
the other side breaking down the person's
body language and telling them whether that
person is lying or not.
It's not just TV fiction and not exactly top
secret.
You may think you're lying but the truth can
be revealed simply by looking at the way
you stand or by looking at you facial expression.
These little things can give you away big time
and can reveal the truth to anyone who knows
how to read you.
You may know deep in you're mind how to
lie. The thing is your body may not have gotten
the message.
This is because whether you notice it or not,
whether you do it intentionally or unintentionally,
you use non-verbal signals to communicate -
and this means using your body language.
Using these non-verbal cues, a good body
language reader will know whether you're
fibbing or telling the truth, whether you're
interested or simply bored out of your mind.
So what or rather where do they look at on
your body to figure out what you really mean?
Your eyes can say a lot even when you're
not. It is, after all, the eyes to your soul,
or so they say - so it says more than what
you're not saying.
When you're lying you avoid to look at that
person directly, meaning you keep your eyes
averted.
If you're interested you tend to have eye contact
and to blink rapidly.
However, blinking rapidly can also mean your
nervous or you have an eye disorder - basically
it's a toss-up.
But not when you match it with what the rest
of your body is saying.
Constantly touching your face or head with
your hands, shuffling your feet, or licking
your lips are other ways your body is telling
the person in front of you that you're lying.
Nodding and leaning forward means your
interested.
Leaning away from the person, looking around,
slouching, or tapping your fingers or foot means
you are bored.
When you're out on a date if a lady twirls
her hair or tucks it behind her ear then that
means she is interested in the guy.
If a man talks a lot, especially on the first
date, keeps gazing at the woman and makes
proper eye contact it simply means he's
interested.
And even something as simple as shaking
hands can tell another person a lot about
your personality.
A palm-to-palm contact will suggests that
you're an honest person whereas a limp
handshake will show you lack confidence.
What it comes down to is that almost every
part of your body can say things about you
that you wouldn't even know you're doing.
From your head, your eyes, eyebrows, lips,
arms, hands, fingers, torso, legs, and feet,
you're body is speaking a language all its
own and may not jive with what you're actually
saying.
While it is true for you, it is also true for the
other person as well.
Having an effective body language can turn
things into your favor and can give you a jump
over the next person.
And the thing is, it's not that hard to master,
once you know what it is you're doing.
Create a lasting first impression even without
saying a thing.
Learn more about others without asking a
question.
Know all about it here.
Learn to know yourself and others better.
Until next time,
Amy Twain
P.S. More on self-improvement can be found in my blog at: http://www.innerzine.com
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