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Let Us Talk About Success In Marriage
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Way back we talked about what you need
to be successful in general.
We also talked about how to be successful
financially.
This time why don't we talk about how to be
successful in marriage.
Whoa!
Success in marriage you say?
Why you ask?
Why not I say?
Success comes in all shapes and sizes. It
also comes from many different endeavors.
And for a good number of people out there
who are in relationships especially those
that are married, success is making sure
their relationship stays the way it has always
been.
Ok that was quite a mouthful but I think you
get the gist of it . . .
. . . Or at least I think you get the gist of it.
. . . Let's pretend you do for argument's sake
. . . And no I'm not chuckling while I say that
Anyway as my friend Ruth Purple would say,
marriage is different from just living together.
Just because you're living together doesn't
mean you're married. You're sort of married
but it's not the same thing.
For one thing when you're married each of
you will have different expectations of what
a "spouse" is as opposed to what a "partner"
is before you were married.
And this is where successful couples have
it down pat.
As if talking about a business merger, because
that is what marriage is - a merger of two
individuals into one unit - they would sit down
and have a deep and serious talk about their
respective expectations and from there decide
whether to proceed or not.
Even after they're married they still talk about
what their expectations are based upon the
current state or direction of their marriage.
That's why proper communication is important
between both you and your spouse.
This is so both of you can understand where
the other one stands on certain issues that
typically come up in the marriage.
This communication channel ensures that
both of you are accepting and trusting of
one another.
By accepting it means that each of you are
more tolerant of one another and are more
willing to forgive and give your support to the
other when the time comes.
And because you trust one another each of
you have more personal freedoms.
Some say that if you don't trust your spouse
this may mean you don't trust yourself.
That's why you need to have a healthy and
positive attitude towards yourself.
This allows you to give freely of yourself while
being able to freely accept from your spouse.
If you have a low self-image you may not be
able to fully be appreciative of your union.
This is because even if you're married you
are still an individual and there will always
be a struggle between your individual self
and the marriage - and there will be times
you will feel trapped.
That's why it's important to share this feeling
so you and your spouse can work to give
yourselves "free or me time."
And like your individual success wherein
you keep working at it until you achieve it,
the same is true for your marriage.
Successful marriages are successful because
the couples involve keep working at it until
it becomes a success.
They don't stop right after the wedding but
actually work harder from thereon in.
Because at the end of the day this is the
person you have mad a vow to live the rest
of your life with.
Give your journey to goal setting and to success
a boost.
Check out how here.
Be a success with yourself.
Here's to you,
Amy Twain
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