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Tags: self improvement, positive attitude, weight of your words
 We sometimes are not aware that our words hurt. It just came from our mouth without thinking the effect of it to others. The weight of your words hurt more than an actual wound. You will suffer temporarily from the sting you feel in a cut and the discomfort just goes away after it was healed but the effect of scathing remark sticks in your mind and the pain goes on and on.
The healing process is so slow and your suffering is too long to endure. Your recovery is unsure. The weight of words prolonged effect is like a big blow that hits harder than a wound or any physical misery. A simple remark could greatly disturb you that could trigger some manifestations in your system and unlike wound, it could also manifest if left untreated but not as distressing compared to it.
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The weight of words affects your emotions. The contents of it duplicates to your feelings. You can test this to yourself to see the validity of these statements. Use yourself as an object for this experiment. Let’s think of a certain moment in your life that you were sad, angry, depressed, frustrated and any other negative feelings such as hate and disgust to know the weight of your words.
If you can still remember it, before you feel those unpleasant feelings, what were your thoughts? And where does the content of your thoughts came from? As we try to trace it, it’s the weight of WORDS that compose the inside of your mind that comes to you after you uttered those.
On the other hand, remember the moments that made you feel happy and excited. Of course, you may think of something that had happened to you that made you happy. A situation is just plain until you put meaning to it and feel the weight of words. A person may interpret differently from others depending on what he is thinking like that half full, half empty glass philosophy that was used to differentiate a pessimist from an optimist.
The object that was used is the same but the interpretation that came from both people is different. The weight of words is also the same to you as to other people. It could also spark different emotions from them depending on the kind of remarks you are giving whether it’s good or bad.
So you can also create these feelings basing only on the kind of what you say to others. You also create an impression from this. People will judge you half from what they hear from you.
About the author
The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Amy recently published a highly successful home study course on how to boost your Self Esteem. Learn more about this Quick-Action Plan and have a Fabulous Self Esteem.
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