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Tags: self improvement, self esteem, how to talk to anyone
 A stranger in a strange city. A foreigner in a foreign land; well, that's what I am...for now. Being surrounded by various strangers bring about vast opportunities of fun and adventure. And interestingly, one of the simplest (and the most fun) trivial adventures to do when you're in a strange country is how to talk to anyone. Yes, that's right--talk to strangers. Okay, I know this may sound too daunting, risky or silly even. But hey, if you're in a different land, and nobody really knows you, it's a good practice to brush up on your social skills. Think about it, if you screw up, that's fine.
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You don't get to meet this person again anyway, you might as well give it your best shot--talk to anyone. I'm talking about taking control of your social life and try living fearlessly---even for once.
- First, got to go, ego. Prepare to get rejected, prepare to be ignored. Despite being embarrassed, there's also the beauty of failure--you'll learn from the experience, so you'll do better next time. But also, bear in mind that when you take risks, being rejected is definitely no biggie--and don't take it personally. Actually, the fear of rejection is the primary reason why most people don't go out there and try to talk to anyone.
- It's okay, they don't bite.
If it makes you feel self-conscious, just remember that those people around you are not watching you coming up and talking to strangers. If and when they do, it's most likely out of sheer shock, awe or admiration that you can pull it off! (and they can't)--and not because of ridicule. - Go out there all by yourself; This is what I mean by taking control of your own social life. No more explaining, no more asking permissions to so and so that you're going to this fabulous place and going home at a certain time. Just for fun, just to entertain yourself and talk to anyone; even if you don't get the chance to bring home phone numbers.
If you decide that there's going to be a day more fun and thrilling than yesterday, it's got to be the precious now! And what's the bravest thing you've ever done in your life--well, maybe this one. It can be as simple as it may sound, yet difficult to undertake especially for the faint-hearted and the easily embarrassed. That's why, just do it--talk to anyone.
Hola, who's this good looking stranger who just entered the restaurant? Maybe it's time to practice my 'talk to anyone' principle now.
Part 2 of this topic coming at you next.
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The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Amy recently published a highly successful home study course on how to boost your Self Esteem. Learn more about this Quick-Action Plan and have a Fabulous Self Esteem.
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