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Tags: self improvement, self esteem, not beautiful
 How many times have we been told not to compare ourselves to others? Well, it's a total waste of time and energy to do so. Why not compare yourself to someone you really knew all along...yourself, no less! It's a world of comparisons out there, as they say, and there's simply no thrill watching others live their lives comparing to yours. If you find others prettier than you, you'll only be wrapped up in insecurity and you find ways of keeping up with them. Ditto with finding yourself more attractive than others; you'll feel conceited and vainglorious.
Well, why not celebrate yourself instead? Revel in the joys of beauty, and your not-so pretty features as well--accept and love yourself no matter what.
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There's only one you in this universe, and at the end of the day, we only got ourselves to deal with, so you got to be nice to yourself.
Who says that you're not beautiful? As compared to whom? You only deem yourself as 'unpretty' if you begin to compare yourself to others who are more of different features than you. There's no universal law that the standard beauty must look like this and that. That you got to have the ideal symmetrical oval face to achieve that perfect photogenic looks. That your hair must be straight to attract any guy's attention. Screw that theory and society's so-called "standards of perfection".
Curly-haired girls are similarly attractive too. It's just a matter of styling your hair that best suits your facial structure.
We can always look attractive in our own special ways.
Beauty is oh so subjective, and if you think you're beautiful, then who are they to contest what you think of yourself?
About the author
The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Amy recently published a highly successful home study course on how to boost your Self Esteem. Learn more about this Quick-Action Plan and have a Fabulous Self Esteem.
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