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Tags: self improvement, self esteem, the classy woman
 The classy woman...ah, the dream girl most men desire, the envy of other girls. Being classy is not only synonymous to style, elegance and poise, but also about projecting confidence and becoming a woman of substance others will respect.
You don't have to be born with it; to be a classy woman, you can work on it. Yes, it's always never too late! Class transcends age, cultures, lifestyles even social status. You can start now:
-Practice good posture. For starters, this is the easiest and cheapest way to confidence--don't slouch.
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Just remind yourself to stand tall and chin up. Plus, you'll look taller too.
-Be nice, behave. It's true why they say good girls always finish first. You can't put a good girl down. That's why you gotta choose your friends...and your battles carefully. If some people are rude to you, ignore them completely. You can also treat them with polite dislike--but let them subtly feel that you're not amused by what they're doing. Don't argue with them with your hot temper--you don't want to stoop down to their level. A classy woman always keeps her composure.
-Mind your words. Speaking of politeness, stay calm and avoid talking too loudly.
If you do, people would think you're dying for attention. Be considerate of everyone around you; during social gatherings, always make eye contact with people you're speaking to. Classy women don't use swear words all the time, and avoid making racist remarks--even as a joke; you may offend some with mixed ancestry.
Smile and be friendly; your smile is the best and the most natural accessory you can use. It brightens your face and keeps people at ease--even if it looks forced. Be nice and friendly with your inferiors, the people below your social class (people who serve you--waiters, drivers). You know that someone was brought up properly by the way they treat people under them, and not just their equals.
More than your appearance, the classy woman is about the right values and treating people the way you want to be treated.
About the author
The author of this article, Amy Twain, is a Self Improvement Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Amy recently published a highly successful home study course on how to boost your Self Esteem. Learn more about this Quick-Action Plan and have a Fabulous Self Esteem.
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